Comments on: Am I wrong to forbid my daughter from dating Black and hispanic men ?

By: CONTRADICTION

CONTRADICTION — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:18:59 +0000

Racist. You shouldn’t even be a pastor….

Your daughter can think for herself. Don’t forbid her from being with other guys.
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By: Jade's Jewels♥

Jade's Jewels♥ — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:04:59 +0000

Sorry sir but that is racist doesnt the bible say to love everyone. Why does it disgust you? You clearly have poor thoughts or ideas about Black or Hispanic people. These days interracial dating is much more commonplace especially for White women of all groups so be careful! You should just want someone who treats her well and has similar morals dont be so concerned with race.
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By: toshie

toshie — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:25:59 +0000

racist much?!

i dunno dude, but you should quit being a pastor…
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By: santi

santi — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:13:59 +0000

yes you are a man of God and you obviously dont see minority men has equal and there for not good enough for your daughter
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By: Kevin

Kevin — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:41:59 +0000

You are racist. But I’m not going to go any further in judging you. I realize you feel this way but you should let her bring who ever she wants to date over to meet you and you decide weather you like them or not (based on how they are from the inside) and then tell her what you think. You are a man that believes in God so you know that God would not want you to hate any other person of his creation. Please give people a chance and I know you will change. People in my family have felt the same way but they get to know people and then they have changed very much in the ways they used to think. You have to see the beauty inside these Human beings hearts and souls. You also probably are not used to seeing these kind of people and your afraid they may not be right for your Child. You need to get to know these people before your daughter dates them. Just tell her she may invite them over to your house but keep an eye on them. Talk and get to know whom ever your daughter wants to date. Good luck my friend.

OHH and BIG LANCE your a SUPER RACIST PERSON What do you think is under all that skin. JUST BONES AND ORGANS just like YOU. I can’t believe people like you your so full of hate. Why do you hate another Race. It makes me feel really sad because I can’t believe there are people like you that hate so much. So you want your children to hate other people. Your a disgrace to Humanity. OHH AND FYI My parents don’t care IF I MIX SO HAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!
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By: mac & cheese

mac & cheese — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:06:59 +0000

and then they say they believe in God and equality……… fuck religion is all full of racists i thought people that go to church would be less racists since jesus wasn’t even white but look at this…..anyways I think youre just a troll but i know alot of people who go to church are racist and encourage segregation i just want to ask them what do they think God thinks about what they’re doing …..do you really think god cares about you or even hears you when youre a racist that goes against everything he and his son believe in….. you think other people dont find you disgusting? I HOPE YOU BURN IN helll for eternity f..ing racist god wont forgive you for being so racist towards other races…..
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By: Dave

Dave — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 16:28:59 +0000

as a pastor you have to look beyond the body or the skin of who your daughter is dating.
if he has the same principles and values that you believe in, makes your daughter happy and wants a serious relationship that might lead to marriage then why not.

If its just some random bf, tell him in secret to " piss off " or you will make his life a living hell.
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By: II e n v y X II [level3]

II e n v y X II [level3] — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:39:59 +0000

You iz nubcaik
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By: ♥ Diamond Doll ♥

♥ Diamond Doll ♥ — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:28:59 +0000

The soul has no color. Love is not black and white and we are all God’s children. If you truly are deeply religious you should understand this more than most.

To say that it "disgusts" you denotes that you feel you, as a white person, are in some way superior to blacks and Hispanics. But we are all equal and equally loved in the eyes of God. You can "forbid" all you want, but chances are when she gets older she will only rebel and you will probably end up pushing her right into an interracial relationship. Rest assured, your daughter will date whomever she pleases, with or with out your approval. And what if the right man for her really does just happen to have a different skin tone? If he were educated, kind, loving, and came from a good family would you still "forbid" it? What are you so afraid of anyway?

By the way, have you read the Bible? There is an interesting bit about loving one another.
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By: ሊያ Anchwa

ሊያ Anchwa — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:22:59 +0000

plllllleaaaaase be a troll, or else it’ll be +50 disillusionment points (-50 Faith in Humanity).
You’re a troll aren’t yooooou? Come oooon….admit it please…..ggggoooosh I’m gonna dieee…..
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LOLOLOLOL@Huey!!! Awesome.
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By: Strong but fair

Strong but fair — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 15:03:59 +0000

You know it makes me sad how people are answering you. The fact is. You are not perfect. But the fact of you being disgusted just because of a mans race is wrong. What you should be looking for is, Is he following bible principles. Does this person show insight into the scriptures? It is not just about going to church every sunday. How does this person live their life. Does it show the spirit of the world or does it show that he wants to live by Godly devotion. If your daughter does have interest in a man other then a man who is white. Let her bring him to you. spend time with him. see if he meets your idea of what a husband for your daughter should be. How does he treat his friends? His family? His mother and father? Who are his friends? Look for good traits. After all. The man in question should be seeking your daughter thru you. Is he doing that?
do not be discouraged by the answers you are getting here. People love to bash. Most importantly. Pray. Ask Jehovah for his help.
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By: Ted Shecler's Movie Memorabi

Ted Shecler's Movie Memorabi — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:47:59 +0000

No your not
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By: King Khameleon

King Khameleon — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:36:59 +0000

I don’t care. Black & Hispanic men don’t need your daughter. We have black women:

1. Jamelia

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2. Jennnifer Hudson

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3. Bria Myles–video beauty

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4. Camille Winbush–actress

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5. Gabrielle Union–actress

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6. Estelle Swaray–rapper

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7. Beyonce Knowles–singer, actress

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8. Fantasia Barrino–Oscar winner, R & B singer, actress

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9. Adaeze Igwe–Nigerian model, ex-beauty queen

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10. Oluchi Onweagba–Nigerian model

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11. Reagan Gomez-Preston–actress

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12. Christina Milian–singer

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13. Vanessa Minnillo–actress

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14. Eva Longoria-Parker–actress

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We don’t want your daughter. And yes you’re wrong….and racist.
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By: reme_1

reme_1 — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:28:59 +0000

you are a really open minded individual who is setting a fine example for your congregation. You need to see the real world. If you forbid her to do anything, that is the thing she WILL do. What have you learned in all your years? You are just another hypocrit in the xtian church. another sane happy atheist
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By: esteem

esteem — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:56:59 +0000

Black men in general treat black women poorly so your daughter is safe til the sexual smoke clears. You cant do anything about it. Tell her to find some black women to talk to. Many white women think that the black women are jelous of them because the black guys are paying attention to them for the moment. Of course not all people are the same. All thieves dont wear black. But she should educate herself on black culture and issues.As far as hispanic go, same thing find someone of that culture. The basics: make sure they have a GOOD job, have an education, good family, good character: honest, trustworthy, respectful..., then it may be good for her. Hope this helps. I understand as I have 2 daughters (black) and they are in relationships with white men.The only problem I have is that I do believe that bad people get into the good grace of those whom are accepting many times.
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By: Thundercat

Thundercat — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:14:59 +0000

stop preaching if you cannot accept all of gods people.
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By: nobody

nobody — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:32:59 +0000

sir, i'm afraid you are wrong. as a man in a position of religious power i suggest you seek professional help to sort through your problem. it is one thing to be a racist individual but as a leader you should not hold such bigoted beliefs as you may "infect" others with your intolerance. you should be leading your flock into the future not to mire them in the hatred of the past. no society or individual needs this racism. also i think you should recognise your daughter is a separate being and if she is mature enough then accept she is an autonomous human with her own beliefs and stop controlling her. please try not to instill your racist beliefs in your daughter. i don't want to have to pity her too.
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By: meka g

meka g — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:12:59 +0000

Yes you are wrong because being a pastor you are suppose to love your children no matter what their decision. Your suppose to guide them and teach them right from wrong not punish your daughter or instill fear if she brings someone of another ethnicity home. People walk around with their head stuck in their air like their nationality does no wrong. Kids that blew up Columbine WHITE, 75% serial killers are WHITE, biggest percentage of child Molestors WHITE. Read up on some statistics. If your daughter can find a good man that treats her like a queen and respects her mind, body and soul, knows how to keep his hands to his self and is financially stable it shouldnt matter if their black or hispanic so long as she is happy. Your job is not to control her life your job is to ground her to be a open minded, kindhearted individual. Hypocrites like you are the reason why half of Americans claim to be christian yet they refuse to step foot in church.
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By: Report Rat

Report Rat — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:50:59 +0000

Not at all. Keep telling her what to do and she rebel and move in with her Black lesbian lover.
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By: Northstar

Northstar — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:07:59 +0000

You are a troll.
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